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Tough gets going we crumble and hide in our own shell.

When tough gets going, we need to remember few things that can & will change in life! So get ready for the changes to happen, let it happen. Sit back and relax.

1: Life will change, let it change because you cannot help the change, due to few factors or the situation. When change happens be happy, as per my previous topic let it change and expect challenges.

2: Get ready for the new challenges in life, because of the changes. Challenge, often we fear challenges in life. Some people say take a leap of faith. Some say face the music. How I saw challenge and what I did is took every challenge positive and faced it as if I don’t care about the out come. Simple in life, we all have faced challenges during school, work, and relationships. All these challenges are life experiences and it did change our lives by the decisions we took. Some challenges brought us joy, some brought us sorrow. Still we made it. Don’t ever be afraid for a challenge because its learning experience.

3: Every day is a new day and we all learn. Don’t be afraid to learn, because learning can be done in many ways. My recommendation is always learn from others or take a page from someone else life experience and adopt it that suits you the best. Read, listen and learn. This is the best experience you can get to improve your life and get through the tough time. There will be days you will feel there is no outcome.

4: Disappointments, I am sure no one likes it. Things will not go the way you wish. You will not get things accomplished and will be disappointed. Its ok, take it as a blessing. Be positive and be happy with the outcome. Remember whatever it is, you made the choice and decided it.

5: Let others be others. In my way of saying it ” don’t give a F” about negative people. Don’t worry or listen to negative people. People who are negative, they always have a problem for anything and everything. Ignore those people, stay way from those people, ghost those people, ditch negative people in life. Bad enough water is flowing above nose these negative people. They are trying to pour more water and tie you into a rock so you cant get out. Don’t let it happen to you. We don’t need to listen and worry about negative people.

6: Take care of yourself, treat yourself like a holy temple. We all get one chance to live, one body so take care of it. Be happy with little things you get. Try to enjoy life and be thankful for everything you have in life. Be thankful for the people who have been there for you and done something for you. Don’t cry over past, let past be past and remember no matter what keep yourself out of alcohol and drugs. Keep yourself happy and busy during tough times.

Tough gets going, going gets tough. If you remember basic things in life, you will sail smoothly. Remember 1: Life changes 2: Challenges 3: Learning experiences 4:Be positive 5: Don’t worry about negative people 6: Be thankful & take care

Life can change by chance, choice or will

Sometimes change can happen without us knowing. Sometimes we will change life. This life change is one tough, hell of a thing. Let me put it like this: If life is to change you cannot avoid it or run from it. If it’s to happen, it will happen. What ever happens, it’s up to the individual and how the individual will embrace the life change.

Most of the time, life changes take place due to a crisis. I will say what ever the crisis is, don’t let it force you to make changes. Take each situation and then change your life at your own pace and will. Don’t let change force you to live a life that you will later regret.

We can decide what’s best for us. Don’t let others make decisions on behalf of us. Work with time and take one day to tackle one thing at a time.

Let GO Of The Past

Past is past, don’t dwell on it. What you had, what happened, who you were has all passed. I would say burry it. Do not think and cry over spilled milk. Move on and remember, when all the doors shut you out, look for the small window that’s open for you. Do not forget that you had already lived a life that changed and that’s why you are where you are today. Forgive and move forward, because the weak cannot forgive. Remember at the end of the tunnel there is light. Stay away from negative people!

Do Things

Do things that you wanted to do, but couldn’t do because of a reason. Go to places and experience life that you never had before. Embrace the new life and changes. Do dare devil things and conquer the fear you had. Do things that will surprise the people that shut you off. Be yourself, don’t hide in a shell, enjoy life to its fullest and have a “I did” check list that says I did it. Dream of becoming better than before. Gently do things and you will be surprised to find out that you have shaken the world.

Live For The Moment & Cherish

Don’t wait for anyone or time. The time will not wait and others will slow you down. Take one day at a time. Live it as if there was no other day and cherish it. Don’t let anyone preach you what to do and how to live your life because of the life changes.

Life can change by will, choice and chance. Remember you get one life, you have to live it to the fullest. Change is the only thing that cannot or does not change. I Know this very well because I experienced a big change and faced lot of challenges in my life.

I quote Mahatma Gandhi, “If you are born poor its not your problem, if you die poor its your problem”.